Tag: life
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You have a Choice!

The things we struggle with, our fears, insecurities, limitations, are all products of how we view things and the perception that we have of them. This isn’t inborn, we learn about these things through association, socialisation and others.
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Fear…

You need to shut out the ‘mean person’ in your mind telling you, you aren’t good enough or you’ll never measure up.
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Meeting the right partner can be hard.
I see people, young people in love, sometimes married and I ask myself, is finding love that easy? Well, amazingly this writing talks about love in some part but not about my love life. I saw a Netflix movie titled “Ile Owo” (House of Money) and I drew up some lessons that I think are…
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I got ghosted🥹
It’s mental health awareness month and there’s really no better time to talk about how much pain emotional hurt causes. I read a comment where a lady said she would rather physical hurt be inflicted on her than emotional hurt. A major cause of this hurt comes from being served what Nigerians call ‘breakfast’. Breakfast…
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I broke my rule…
I have quite a number of covert rules that you don’t see until you touch the pain points. In life, it is important to live by values and these values don’t necessarily have to be based on where you are presently. You can take cues from mentors, role models, organizations you have seen build a…
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Why you are not getting things done…
A lot of times, we know we have so much to do but we end up with a lot of excuses and disappointments because we couldn’t fulfill our tasks or complete our To-Do Lists. This isn’t peculiar. We are all in this boat. Here’s why I think you’re getting little or nothing done: – You…
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Mindset x Habits
Two pivotal words that can transform your life when implemented rightly. Mindset is the conditioning that happens in your mind. How your mind is positioned to live through situations and respond to issues. Habits are formed through continuous repetitions. They are formed when a habit loop is created. One cannot occur without the other. There’s…
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Living out your dream.
You can create the life that you want. Just stop kidding around thinking you need to get to a particular age to live the kind of life you want to live or that someone would hand it to you on a platter (well, if you are a trust fund kid then yes). Hold up, I’m…
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Life musings
Life can be tough, I hope you are stronger. Life can vilify, I hope you have strength of character. Life can be comfortable, I hope you have focus. Life can be difficult, I hope you keep showing up. I hope you keep raising the bar and raising your head up. It’s your life but not…
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On Being Present❤️
Life happens everytime. No, it isn’t new. Weird things happen, unplanned events happen; most importantly, life continues. When you are at your lowest, life isn’t stopping to give you allowance to breathe and regain lost feats. When you get to the peak of your career, life doesn’t stop so you can enjoy the allure that…