Tag: life
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One day, Day one.

When you don’t move, nothing moves and when you think you have nothing, you are lacking in gratitude and won’t be able to see the good in and around you.
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I was offended.

Life isn’t linear. Be wise in your decisions and relations but flexible in not letting past experiences taint your present perception.
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You have a Choice!

The things we struggle with, our fears, insecurities, limitations, are all products of how we view things and the perception that we have of them. This isn’t inborn, we learn about these things through association, socialisation and others.
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Fear…

You need to shut out the ‘mean person’ in your mind telling you, you aren’t good enough or you’ll never measure up.
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Meeting the right partner can be hard.
I see people, young people in love, sometimes married and I ask myself, is finding love that easy? Well, amazingly this writing talks about love in some part but not about my love life. I saw a Netflix movie titled “Ile Owo” (House of Money) and I drew up some lessons that I think are…
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I got ghosted🥹
It’s mental health awareness month and there’s really no better time to talk about how much pain emotional hurt causes. I read a comment where a lady said she would rather physical hurt be inflicted on her than emotional hurt. A major cause of this hurt comes from being served what Nigerians call ‘breakfast’. Breakfast…
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I broke my rule…
I have quite a number of covert rules that you don’t see until you touch the pain points. In life, it is important to live by values and these values don’t necessarily have to be based on where you are presently. You can take cues from mentors, role models, organizations you have seen build a…
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Why you are not getting things done…
A lot of times, we know we have so much to do but we end up with a lot of excuses and disappointments because we couldn’t fulfill our tasks or complete our To-Do Lists. This isn’t peculiar. We are all in this boat. Here’s why I think you’re getting little or nothing done: – You…
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Mindset x Habits
Two pivotal words that can transform your life when implemented rightly. Mindset is the conditioning that happens in your mind. How your mind is positioned to live through situations and respond to issues. Habits are formed through continuous repetitions. They are formed when a habit loop is created. One cannot occur without the other. There’s…